Coping is a mechanism used to deal with a traumatic
event, emotionally or physically, in your life. These events could range from divorce
to a death in the family; there can be more minor events as well, like failing
a test or getting a cold. Religion, physical activity, therapy, and many other
strategies can be used to cope with a stressful event in one’s life as well as
negative coping strategies, such as smoking, eating disorders, or binge
drinking. People with a chronic disease have to cope with their illness every
day; I will be looking at a coping strategy used by elderly women who had
recently been diagnosed with breast cancer.
One coping
strategy that many people use to deal with events that happen in their life is
religion. Among elderly people, religion can help relieve the stress
surrounding an illness or other stressors that could affect them. Being a part
of a religion can provide social support for those involved and can give them
opportunities for interpersonal interactions and volunteering opportunities. Religion
can also give a person a sense of control of their destiny. There was a study
done among elderly (65 and over) women who had been recently (in the past 6
months) diagnosed with breast cancer. How they coped with the stress and
anxiety they felt from the diagnosis. 33 women were used in the study which
consisted of an interview with open ended questions that lasted for about 2
hours for each participant. Three main themes arose after all the interviews
had been conducted: emotional support, social support, and meaning. (1)
30 out
of the 33 women talked about how their religion gave them emotional support
that helped them deal with their breast cancer. The participants felt as if “they
could count on God during their illness experience” (1) since they felt as if
they couldn’t tell others about their fears surrounding their condition because
it would burden others. Underneath emotional support, there were 7 sub-themes
that were observed. Companionship was mentioned by 16 different participants as
something that they found through religion. This was important, especially for
the ones who lived alone due to divorce or being widowed. 12 participants also
had a feeling of being taken care of through their religion. They felt as if
God would watch out for them and provide the best outcome. 3 of those same
women also felt as if the doctor and surgeon were only vehicles in which God
worked through to provide the best care. A reliance on faith was also reported
from 11 respondents. They talked about how they rely on God or on their faith
during the breast cancer experience. For 11 women, they got a sense of well-being
from their faith which provided hope that their cancer would be cured; it gave
them a sense of self-worth and gave them optimism. There were other categories,
such as comfort, guidance, strength, and mitigation of fear that all were
provided to the participants through their faith. (1)
The next
main category is social support provided by the participants’ religious house,
such as a church or synagogue, and everyone who goes to that church too whether
or not they participants knew the people of the religious house or not.
Underneath social support, there were 5 subcategories, including prayer for and
by others, which showed the participants support from people other than their
doctor, religious volunteer work, which gave the 9 women who reported this as a
way of social support and an activity that they could do during treatment,
going to church or to a synagogue to be in attendance with others, having a
relationship with the religious leader also provided support for 6 of the women
because the leader could talk with them and could come to their house to
administer communion or to pray with them, and lastly some were provided
religion through their children bringing it to them and involving them with
prayer or taking them to their church. (1)
The last
main category is how religion provided a meaning for two-thirds of the
participants. These women identified themselves with what religion they were involved
with and felt that it really gave them meaning to life. The three subcategories
under meaning were providing 10 women with a moral compass, which means that
they felt enabled by their faith to be good people and to be able to tell right
from wrong, 9 of the women described their religion as being who they were, one
even responding to the question “In what ways would you say you’re religious?”
and the woman said “I’m Jewish” (1), many others had a similar response to the
question, and finally 8 participants referred to the diagnosis of breast cancer
to being part of God’s plan, saying that the breast cancer was “in the hands of
God” (1) and the cancer being “out of their control” (1).
This
study shows that religion can be a great way to cope with a traumatic event in
one’s life, even when dealing with a health issue. Although this study only
deals with a fraction of patients who have breast cancer, it still provided
evidence that religion can be a good coping mechanism for anyone who has been
through a hard event in life.
Question: How can this study be improved to provide better
information on religion as a coping mechanism?
Reference:
1.
Feher, Shoshanah, and Rose C. Maly. "Coping With Breast
Cancer In Later Life: The Role Of Religious Faith." Psycho-Oncology 8.5 (1999): 408-416. Print
Thanks for such an informative blog. A very close family member has chosen his church/religion to help with his addiction to alcohol. For him AA was not working but doing meetings at his church daily with study groups, one on one meetings and scheduled services he has began a healthier lifestyle for himself and his family.
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